More on "race" and "sex" ...

One section of a series of six features about Gay Men and Sex, this article features three essays about Sex, Skin Color, and Stereotypes. Basically, sex is ideological, desire is too: "I try to think of the first time a white man took me to forbidden territory. It was during oral sex. We both were talking dirty, along the lines of "Oh, that dick tastes good. Yeah, you do that real good. Shit, you're gonna make me cum. Yeah, suck that dick, nasty fucker."

Then it came.

"Do it like a good house nigger."

My eyes bulged like Bernie Mac's. Rage ran through me--images of powerful slaves rebelling in the fields. Then I noticed something that shocked me.

My dick got harder.

It was fucked up."